Couple things to remember when
starting any new relationship, take is slow and let it grow. Keep it real &
honest. Don't be afraid to say you’re sorry when you know you’re wrong. If
things do seem to be getting out of hand, step back for a few minutes and clear
the air in the room. Come back in say ... half an hour and talk about what it
was that started the situation in the first place. Then find a way to make sure
that situation won't come back.
Always remember, with every day
there comes the chance for a new beginning in life, love and relationships. If you’re
having trouble with your special someone you should always make sure that
before the sun is done for the day so are your problems. This will clear the
way for you both to start anew the next morning. There are no problems that
can't be solved if both parties sit and TALK instead of screaming at
one-another. One of the worst things that can be done is cheating. It hurts
tremendously to find out your special someone has cheated on you and it makes
you angry. But, have you stopped loving that person? Or, are you just furious
with their actions. After all they are the same person. When you sit down to
talk about what happened the main thing to find out is, WHY did it happen?
Something like this doesn't just happen. There has to be an underlying reason.
Did he / she feel like they were being neglected? As in, not getting the same
love back they were putting forth in the relationship or in the private room.
The one thing we all need to remember is,
we were all designed to give and receive love. Men sometimes think the woman they are with will
be there for them no matter how they act. Not true. If guys don't show their special someone the kindness, respect and
love, how then can they expect her to be there for him. The opposite is also
true. I know some guys that go the extra mile because they love a woman so much
they feel they cannot live without seeing them or being touched by them. A
simple hug and kiss is all it takes some times to show the love that is within
us.
From what I hear there are women expecting
their guy to be there for them no matter what, just like men? Men / Women, if
you show up at the home of your special someone and they are dressed to go
someplace special on occasions you need to be flexible enough to say or do what
it takes to make the evening as special as they were expecting. Everyone
realizes that in this economy we cannot always go out and spend a lot of cash
on each other. Remember, the amount of love and attention your special someone
gives to you in the private room needs to be returned or else they will go
looking for that attention in someone’s arms other than your own. "Treat
your special someone with the love and respect you want them to have towards
you. The same goes for the bedroom people. Don’t be afraid to touch one
another. Remember, you’re not making love to someone but rather with someone.
Do this and your relationship with not only stay healthy but get stronger by
the day."
I could go on but you get the idea.
If you’re special someone has cheated on you. Find out why and solve the
problem. When you married each other you did say, FOR BETTER OR WORSE. These
are my opinions and you can choose to agree with them or not it’s ultimately
your choice.
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